As I see, for a self-confident person it is easier to perform better, and the better you perform the more successful you become. Okay, but how?
To be perfect in any field always hurts your social life. Lacking social life, especially during college, has a strong connection with low confidence. You become lonely, desperate, and lose your faith in your social skills. You may be very good at studying as a focused and perfect student, but as an individual, you may have no opportunities to build strong friendships; therefore, you feel that...
What is an introvert? Introverts are individuals that do not like big gatherings and prefer small get together and one-on-one activities. We do have fun socializing; it’s just that we prefer quieter parties than loud ones. Also, we may need quite some time to recover after any social activity. When I tell people I am an introvert (well, that’s what the Myers-Briggs test says), people...
“I would never be able to score the highest marks in my class!” “I would never be capable enough to get into my dream profession!” Have you ever whispered these words to yourself? Have you ever considered yourself not “good enough” for any person or position? Ever felt like everyone around you is confident, and it’s just you who is lagging? Well, if you...
When you look at your image in a mirror, what is the first thought that pops up in your mind? How do you feel when you see yourself standing right in front of you? Do you feel confident, or does your mind perceive a negative image about yourself? That particular “feeling” is what I call self-esteem, a feeling we can improve by using everyday self-esteem activities and that’s exactly what we...
This post is not intended to be a guide on how you can build self-confidence. Instead, it offers a self-assessment of how I did. It is a catalog of my personal processes and the manner in which I approach this complex topic. I believe that I can only share my methods and experiences, but I cannot give you advice on building self-confidence. This is because we might differ in terms of age, sex...
I’m happy because my life is full of challenges. There have been many obstacles I had to overcome, and hopefully, there will be more to deal with in the future. As long as I will have them, I will feel alive even if some of them will hurt me for sure. Regardless if they are inner, outer, past, or future obstacles, they are the foundations of the persona, I will turn into the next day whether I...
In one of my turbulent times, I had to solve one of my most significant issues ever. It was so complicated that I had no idea what to do. I was desperate. The situation seemed so confused that it almost broke me. Several ideas and plans were flashing in my head. I tried to find solutions to my problem so hard that I felt my brains stopped working. Like I was in my own prison. The more I was...
However, Peter Patak is NOT an author of any bestseller yet, in his posts, he encourages his readers to have a positive mindset and proactive lifestyle. He reads books that help him uncover his true potential. Peter is a father of two, married, and a leader in his profession. On the way of his self-discovery, he invites you to be inspired by his thoughts.